How to Adapt a Classic Dance Style to Your Wedding Theme
What do you do when you fall in love with a timeless dance style, like a smooth waltz or an elegant foxtrot, but your wedding theme leans vintage-chic, modern, or something entirely unique?
Let the style and theme play together, and watch your first dance take shape! At Monumental Ballroom, that’s the magic we love most! Here’s how to do it well.
Start with Your Wedding Vision
Every wedding has a vibe. Your dream wedding may be soft and romantic, rustic countryside, or sleek and modern. Before committing to a classic dance style, think about how it can support your vibe. A simplified viennese waltz can feel fairytale-like, perfect for a romantic song choice or an elegant venue. A fun foxy suits a more playful, quirky style with steps that move you around the room.
By aligning your dance style with your décor, colors, and overall mood, your first dance can feel like a seamless part of the day.
Adjust the Technique to Match the Mood
Classic dance styles have a set structure, but that doesn’t mean you can’t tweak them. Maybe your version of foxtrot is softer and slower, or your waltz more casual than glamorous. This kind of customization helps the dance feel authentic to you, and helps you express what’s unique about your relationship.
Dress, Shoes, and Movement Matter
What you wear affects what you can do on the dance floor. At Monumental Ballroom, we recommend testing some dance moves in your dress (or suit) during a fitting. Additionally, wear your wedding shoes during lessons to see how easy (or tricky) movement will be.
Follow these tips:
If your wedding attire is flowing or long, choose smoother, tighter dance steps.
If your outfit is simple or has fewer restrictions, you can try more expressive moves.
Whether you opt for heels, flats, or dance shoes, make sure they suit the vibe, maybe romantic and classic, maybe relaxed and comfortable.
Let Emotion & Connection Take Center Stage
What makes a first dance unforgettable isn’t perfection—it’s heart. A classic dance style doesn’t need to be stiff or overly formal; it can be soft, intimate, and candid. Focus on how it feels between you and your partner. Eye contact, a smile, a natural embrace are small details that often resonate more than polished choreography. At Monumental Ballroom, we emphasize that the connection matters more than hitting every step exactly.
Ready to Begin Designing Your First Dance?
Not sure where to start crafting the unique first dance that captures you, your relationship, and your wedding style? Perfect. That’s what we do best. Schedule your consultation lesson to work together to create your dream first dance. Let’s make it a memory that lasts a lifetime!
